Proactive dating


This was a little strange to me because I wasn’t sure what to do if I was really into someone.



This isn’t a problem for Japanese men who usually will arrange a date at a very cheap cafe and still expect me to pay my share!One thing that is very different in Japan is that it is not uncommon for a woman to ask a man out.I have to confess that I had a crush on a boy in junior high and my friends forced me to do the kokuhaku ritual.Among Japanese teenagers the most basic way of starting to date someone is by giving them a “kokuhaku” or love confession.

This sounds a bit creepy but it’s not so much telling someone you love them but rather the Japanese way of letting them know you like them and asking them out.

Something fellow GP writer, Grace Buchele Mineta mentioned in her podcast interview.



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